Friday, April 15, 2011

ANGRY!

Yep, I know there is so much in the world of adoption I keep needing to talk about, but right now, I wish MORE THAN ANYTHING adoption WAS NOT a part of my oldest son’s life.

And for the record . . . NO! It is not okay to call, after all this time, and claim you only want to help “our” son while telling me he lied about the abuse he went through and that he “deserved” what you did to him because of the “bad” things he did!!!!!

He is an amazing person and he has NEVER deserved anything that has happened to him since the moment he was born and I placed him in the arms of a stranger.

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  1. Slap the crap out of her for me - and for all the kids adopters have abused.... want any help?

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  2. Disgusting! Blaming the child is so easy for some people to do…and just plain wrong! I am so sorry that he (and you) are going through this.

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  3. Oh Cassie - I hate that your son got those people as adopters. Blaming the victim for the abuse seriously? Kids do not deserve abuse from the people that love them. Can I slap you for her?

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  4. Amazing how those who abuse justify what they do, it never fails to be inventive, creative, self-justifying and delusional.

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  5. Sending positive thoughts to you and your son. He didn't deserve any of it. It's sick how abusers keep attempting to harm their victims. Disgusting.

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  6. Smack her for me too...the nerve of some people. Just sickening.

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  7. Oh Cassie, I am sorry and angry on yours and your son's behalf. I know you have worked so hard to let her into your lives despite what she has done to you all and this is how she treats you?? One ill lady. She is not worth yours or your sons troubles anymore if this is what she is going to do to you.

    She is a coward because she cannot face the woman she is and has to blame you/your son for HER evils.

    Again, so sorry.

    Love you ((((hugs)))

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  8. I am so, so sorry you have to deal with this woman and her 'issues'. Why is there so much evil in the world of adoption? I'm so angry for you and all the rest!

    I have to say that abuse is my biggest fear. My reunion with my son is so new that the smallest, most innocuous comment from me has elicited his defense of the adoptress. Any further questioning from me, his mother, would only alienate him.

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